CHANGE

Funny how most or all my post have to do with change, well it’s inevitable. We can’t help the things that change around us; we can however change the way it affects us as a person and our response to its diversity.

Let me reflect on the business aspects of my life instead of family or friends for once. I am in a stage in my life where I feel the need for transformation in my career which will effect my self worth. I need to feel and see that  there is a bright light beyond and I don’t feel that right now. I’m sure that can be spiritually or just a feeling of content. I’m feeling neither right now. What does that exactly mean to me? I’m looking for not the norm, challenges, stability and camaraderie in my next adventure.

Now, it’s time to get focused and back on the bull to take control once again. It’s NEVER too late to start if it be today or tomorrow. I’ve set goals and updated my vision board which, reflect the things that are going to be done that make me HAPPY! Very common things such as pay off debit, rebuild my savings and allocate for a home again. Pictures of the things I envision in my life once again or new possessions to share.

Planning is crucial in all aspects of growth in life. I’m sure I’m not the only person with these similar goals. What needs to be done emotionally, you have to have the vitality to keep moving forward with positive goals with whatever obstacles that gets in the way. You have to find the means to balance your life with budgeting and realistic expectation of how to maintain your life style. We are the only ones who can make our destiny be what you want it to be with confidence and smart decisions the earlier in life the better. If it be in business, relationships, love, life etc… it’s all up to us as individuals.

Education; continual learning will keep up the intellect skills needed for what drives us. We are never too old to learn if it be professionally or spiritually. Find the balance in your life if it be between school, work, family, friends and health try to find the symmetry.  It’s important to gain a nest egg for your future to be comfortable so make wise choices.

Much love and happiness

Challenges

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I can’t believe how long it has taken me to write a blog! I actually wrote one a few weeks back but felt it wasn’t a positive passage of words for me to share. I think I just needed to write out my feelings even if they weren’t all good. It was just a mixture of perplex thoughts of how I felt about certain people and situations happening in my life which are personal. I picked this picture because it represents the mystifying feelings I felt throughout the year.

This year has definitely had it’s ups and downs as every year. It’s life’s experiences how else do we live and learn but through mistakes and triumphs. I recall speaking of goals at the beginning of the year but how it seems those goals have take 2nd, 3rd or 4th place in my life, talk about distractions!

For me this year has been extremely CHALLENGING. I do believe in strength, belief in oneself and god will get you through any obstacles in life. Love others as you would love yourself. We do get lost in other peoples problems and loose ourselves in them. You can’t always be there for other’s when it tears you down emotionally and physically, I’m learning this. Take care of one self being 1st and for most!

On another note, I’m extremely excited that I have a new family this year I’m spending the holidays with. We should all welcome new people into our lives with kindness!

I end this by saying I’ve learned a lot this year as every year. It’s always a learning experience “LIFE that is”. Cherish your life and surround yourself with people you love. Happy Holidays to everyone, god bless and have a wonderful Happy New Year!

Much love,

The New Year!

IMG00084-20101208-1446It’s 2013, I had to rewrite this blog for the second time becaue I knew that everything I was saying was a repeat of last year. I want this year to be so different and so much more positive and influential that everyone can feel my energy.

I would like to wish everyone a wonderful New Year filled with Happiness, Love, Friendship, Good Health and Success. If it be more money or just enough to make you happy, so be it. 

I think that every year that passes, is a learning venture for us all. I believe we can not prevail in life without some kind of pain or joy! Let there be light in your life this year, as I captured in this picture taken off of Hogans in La Jolla. 

As we get older and I hope wiser, we start observing the people around us and how they can or cannot effect our lives. It is our choice who we choose to be around and no other, even family. I believe if we want to be better people, we will surround ourselves with positive people. The certain kind that make us smile, learn from and look up to. The individuals that we want to share our thoughts and beliefs with no judgement. I wish this upon eveyone, I think we would all see life in a different light. Life is short and believe me it’s NOT worth it not being gratified with our surroundings and ourself!

I see this year as being a very fullfilling year. It has to start with us and our decisions to move forward no matter what we have experienced in the past or present. For those of you who have been blessed with no negativity that is outstanding, continue to be happy and smile as often as you can. As for the rest of us…..it’s a New Year set your goals high, accomplish them and things will go your way. You just have to be strong enough to move forward and make a change NOW. Peace, love and happiness be with you all!

Much love

Happy Holidays!

photoThe holidays brings out love, joy and togetherness. I hope everyone is having the privilege of spending time with loved ones! I have been very overwhelmed with so many thoughts of what next year will bring and haven’t been focusing too much on the Xmas spirit. YES shame on me, I know! I just figure I have next year to make up for it.

I was pleasantly surprised when a generous friend of mine sent me roses out of the thoughtfulness of his heart. I guess people just don’t send flowers for apologies or special occasions any more which is a wonderful change. It definitely put a smile on my face and made me feel loved. To my special friend “thank you so very much, it means a lot to me!”

I do have a lot to be grateful for this time of year, my health, good friends, a great place to live to prepare for next years goals which will bring a new perspective on my life and the people around me. I look forward to next Christmas, it will be filled with more love, more joy and togetherness for sure! I wish you all a warm holiday season with all the hugs and kisses you all can endure!

Much love,

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