03 Nov 2016
Tags: family, Life, patience, Thanksgiving
Wow, how time has flown! I am so estatic to say that it’s been an incrediable year of change, growth, opportunities, friendship and love. Patience has assisted me tremendeously to improving my attitude, not giving up on myself and others. Life continues to inspire me as I am getting older and wiser about the decision I make in my life.
As I watch the sunset from a beautiful home in La Jolla, I try to not take for grated the wonderful feeling of tranquility. I am very blessed to have the people I have in my passage for change, understanding and success.
Friendship is very important and if you are lucky to have the friends in your life that love you uncondiitionally that is a HUGE step of not feeling alone. Reach out to the people you love and tell them how much you care. I guarantee that will make you feel as good as it will them.
I wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving this month. Spend time with your loved ones if you can and or people you care about, sharing is caring. Eat till your bellies are full with happiness.
Peace & Love!
03 Feb 2015
Tags: beach, stroll, warmth
It was a Santa Ana day so this evening was exceptionally gorgeous with all the wonderful colors. It was worth a stroll on the boardwalk and picture to be taken to be shared! I hope the New Year brings everyone LOVE & GOOD HEALTH!
PEACE & JOY
15 Sep 2014
Tags: behavior, compassion, feelings, human nature, indifferent, kindness, People, positive, understanding
Human kindness comes to some but not so much to others, such as common sense. Treat one another as you would want to be treated. Is that such the case with people who think they are better than others? I find people intriguing in such that I think about what drives them to be and act the way they do? I see that in majority cases it has to do with pier pressure to be a curtain way and if they are called on by a group, leader or loved one they tend to be greatly influenced.
I think now that I’ve encountered different scenarios in my life time, I have a better outlook and experience in how friends, employment and social gathering interact. I’ve always thought of myself as being a very open minded person. I’m a good listener and genuinely want to hear what people have to say who ever they are. I’ve dealt with all kinds of people from all walks of life, if it be a white collar, blue collar or even unfortunate individuals everyone deserves to be heard. It’s either genetics, upbringing and or choice, the way people treat one another. I think as you grow and see how the world is and how our society interacts, it has an effect and outlook on how we socialize. America is so sheltered when it comes to the way people interact to one another. I guess you can say we are quite spoiled because we are allowed to have freedom of speech and have choices in how we choose to live our lives. The choice is of coarse yours to make and I hope it’s a positive one. The interaction you have if it be with fellow workers, strangers and or loved ones wishing it will always be with sincerity and goodness.
This is my REFLECTION for the month.
Much love and happiness.
11 Feb 2014
Tags: balance, business, Change, decisions, determination, developement, diversity, driven, education, flexiblilty, goals, happiness, happy, learning, Life, love, passion, positive, reading, relationship, self-belief, spirtitally, success, tolerance, vision
Funny how most or all my post have to do with change, well it’s inevitable. We can’t help the things that change around us; we can however change the way it affects us as a person and our response to its diversity.
Let me reflect on the business aspects of my life instead of family or friends for once. I am in a stage in my life where I feel the need for transformation in my career which will effect my self worth. I need to feel and see that there is a bright light beyond and I don’t feel that right now. I’m sure that can be spiritually or just a feeling of content. I’m feeling neither right now. What does that exactly mean to me? I’m looking for not the norm, challenges, stability and camaraderie in my next adventure.
Now, it’s time to get focused and back on the bull to take control once again. It’s NEVER too late to start if it be today or tomorrow. I’ve set goals and updated my vision board which, reflect the things that are going to be done that make me HAPPY! Very common things such as pay off debit, rebuild my savings and allocate for a home again. Pictures of the things I envision in my life once again or new possessions to share.
Planning is crucial in all aspects of growth in life. I’m sure I’m not the only person with these similar goals. What needs to be done emotionally, you have to have the vitality to keep moving forward with positive goals with whatever obstacles that gets in the way. You have to find the means to balance your life with budgeting and realistic expectation of how to maintain your life style. We are the only ones who can make our destiny be what you want it to be with confidence and smart decisions the earlier in life the better. If it be in business, relationships, love, life etc… it’s all up to us as individuals.
Education; continual learning will keep up the intellect skills needed for what drives us. We are never too old to learn if it be professionally or spiritually. Find the balance in your life if it be between school, work, family, friends and health try to find the symmetry. It’s important to gain a nest egg for your future to be comfortable so make wise choices.
Much love and happiness
20 Dec 2013
Tags: family, friend, goals, god, Hope, Life, love, positive, strengths, success, support, Unconditional
I can’t believe how long it has taken me to write a blog! I actually wrote one a few weeks back but felt it wasn’t a positive passage of words for me to share. I think I just needed to write out my feelings even if they weren’t all good. It was just a mixture of perplex thoughts of how I felt about certain people and situations happening in my life which are personal. I picked this picture because it represents the mystifying feelings I felt throughout the year.
This year has definitely had it’s ups and downs as every year. It’s life’s experiences how else do we live and learn but through mistakes and triumphs. I recall speaking of goals at the beginning of the year but how it seems those goals have take 2nd, 3rd or 4th place in my life, talk about distractions!
For me this year has been extremely CHALLENGING. I do believe in strength, belief in oneself and god will get you through any obstacles in life. Love others as you would love yourself. We do get lost in other peoples problems and loose ourselves in them. You can’t always be there for other’s when it tears you down emotionally and physically, I’m learning this. Take care of one self being 1st and for most!
On another note, I’m extremely excited that I have a new family this year I’m spending the holidays with. We should all welcome new people into our lives with kindness!
I end this by saying I’ve learned a lot this year as every year. It’s always a learning experience “LIFE that is”. Cherish your life and surround yourself with people you love. Happy Holidays to everyone, god bless and have a wonderful Happy New Year!
15 Apr 2013
Tags: determination, driven, goals, positive, success
Isn’t that something you do at the beginning of the year? I think that’s called New Years Resolution more like. Goals can be done anytime of the year of course. Ideally, I think one would want to start at the beginning of the year but it doesn’t really matter your preference. I am learning that making goals is very important to being successful in life. It is a difficult task for some because it makes you accountable for yourself. My opinion of course that if you can be responsible for your actions than you CAN be successful in the things you set out to accomplish which is anything! This picture to me symbolizes strength and determination as these rays find their way through the thick clouds.
I’ve been reading books about setting goals which include; surround yourself with successful people, focus on one thing, visual pictures of what you want and explanations to a balanced life. If you think about it, WOW these aren’t that difficult to accomplish if you set your mind to it and it’s mostly common sense one would think? I actually have experienced really positive results when I’ve focused on the things I wanted repeatedly . I definitely need to revisit those times in my life and find that determination once again which worked for me! I so believe we all have it in us to be successful in LIFE, if it be for work, joys, love etc.. we just need to want it bad enough! You hear it all the time successful people are driven and when you are driven you most certainly achieve greater things. You have to visualize your goals if it be a material object or objective, do it and be clear in your mind of your intention and plan. Why is it so easy to say and so hard to do? I think it’s human nature for some of us to give up when things seem so out of our reach. I am certainly human and need to remind myself of the things I want especially when it could make me happier! Believe in BIG goals and you will achieve them. You just have to discipline yourself again and again visually or mentally your aim and you will have a larger success rate than not doing these exercises or reminders of the important things you want out of your life.
Best of luck, I hope this blog can help you in some way because I will be working on finding my strength in the things I want and love once again. Who doesn’t want to be happier! : )
07 Jan 2013
Tags: Energy, Friends, Life, love, New Year, Peace, People
It’s 2013, I had to rewrite this blog for the second time becaue I knew that everything I was saying was a repeat of last year. I want this year to be so different and so much more positive and influential that everyone can feel my energy.
I would like to wish everyone a wonderful New Year filled with Happiness, Love, Friendship, Good Health and Success. If it be more money or just enough to make you happy, so be it.
I think that every year that passes, is a learning venture for us all. I believe we can not prevail in life without some kind of pain or joy! Let there be light in your life this year, as I captured in this picture taken off of Hogans in La Jolla.
As we get older and I hope wiser, we start observing the people around us and how they can or cannot effect our lives. It is our choice who we choose to be around and no other, even family. I believe if we want to be better people, we will surround ourselves with positive people. The certain kind that make us smile, learn from and look up to. The individuals that we want to share our thoughts and beliefs with no judgement. I wish this upon eveyone, I think we would all see life in a different light. Life is short and believe me it’s NOT worth it not being gratified with our surroundings and ourself!
I see this year as being a very fullfilling year. It has to start with us and our decisions to move forward no matter what we have experienced in the past or present. For those of you who have been blessed with no negativity that is outstanding, continue to be happy and smile as often as you can. As for the rest of us…..it’s a New Year set your goals high, accomplish them and things will go your way. You just have to be strong enough to move forward and make a change NOW. Peace, love and happiness be with you all!