Bess PB Sunset

Strange, I can say the word “Freedom” as I am a single woman for the first time in years. Completely free of any kind of obligation to a significant other is actually a GREAT feeling. I don’t have to think about anyone else’s well being except my own which is not selfish. I can do as I please which is exhilarating and liberating at the same time.

As a single woman and hitting the age of 50 in another year, I have to say it’s not as scary as I thought it would be. I have NEVER been alone and this time around I really want to find myself and figure out my goals. It’s never to late to have goals, what else keeps us going?!

I believe, I have grown to appreciate myself in the sense of who I am as a person. I don’t think I need to change for anyone at this stage in my life. We all have bad habits those can be changed but I meant our  individual personalities. I am a very caring person and at times I think of others before I do myself. If you are like that don’t feel awful, it’s who you are. It’s our nature to be caring people and that isn’t a bad thing. The only time it’s harmful is when it  can hurt you emotionally or physically. Also, helping others who are selfish and destructive. I’m sure we all have been there in one form or another but realize it and change it or leave the people that are toxic, it’s not healthy for anyone’s happiness.

“Freedom: the state of being free or at liberty rather than in confinement or under physical restraint.” We all have been there, feeling like one is confined when in a relationship is an uncomfortable feeling. It shouldn’t feel like that at all, this is not normal. Being with someone is to be joyful and looking forward to converse with that special someone. It’s not always going to feel exciting but NEVER a disappointment. With that being said, move forward open minded, take the time to meet and explore new interesting people in this world.

Luck to all the women and men out there finding yourself and the perfect companion when the time is right.

Wishing happiness and love to all.