FALL

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As I gaze into the evening ski, I realize how tranquil I feel. No worries, as the calm water illuminates beautiful colors into the sunset.

How I wish life could make me feel this relaxed all the time.

It’s an October evening and all is quiet. People walking, riding, skating and running along the boardwalk with not a care in the world or so it seems.

I love nights like these where it feels like everyone is in a bubble and feels the same way as I do.  As if, time is standing still in this twilight.

The cool fall air on my skin is refreshing as I ride my bike up hill along the ocean scenery.

Till another day and another sunset.

Peace and love,

 

 

 

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Freedom!

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Strange, I can say the word “Freedom” as I am a single woman for the first time in years. Completely free of any kind of obligation to a significant other is actually a GREAT feeling. I don’t have to think about anyone else’s well being except my own which is not selfish. I can do as I please which is exhilarating and liberating at the same time.

“Freedom: the state of being free or at liberty rather than in confinement or under physical restraint.” We all have been there, feeling like one is confined one way or another. Being with someone is to be happy and content. It’s not always going to feel exciting but NEVER a disappointment. With that being said, move forward open minded; take time for self gratification; explore; and meet new interesting people in this world.

Luck to all the women and men out there finding yourself and the perfect companion when the time is right.

Wishing happiness and love to all.

End of another year 2016

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Wow, how time has flown! I am so estatic to say that it’s been an incrediable year of change, growth, opportunities, friendship and love. Patience has assisted me tremendeously to improving my attitude, not giving up on myself and others. Life continues to inspire me as I am getting older and  wiser about the decision I make in my life.

As I watch the sunset from a beautiful home in La Jolla, I try to not take for grated the wonderful feeling of tranquility. I am very blessed to have the people I have in my passage for change, understanding and success.

Friendship is very important and if you are lucky to have the friends in your  life that love you uncondiitionally that is a HUGE step of not feeling alone. Reach out to the people you love and tell them how much you care. I guarantee that will make you feel as good as it will them.

I wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving this month. Spend time with your loved ones if you can and or people you care about, sharing is caring. Eat till your bellies are full with happiness.

Peace & Love!

 

 

 

 

Beautiful January Evening!

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It was a Santa Ana day so this evening was exceptionally gorgeous with all the wonderful colors. It was worth a stroll on the boardwalk and picture to be taken to be shared! I hope the New Year brings everyone LOVE & GOOD HEALTH!

PEACE & JOY

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People – a Reflection

CommunityHuman kindness comes to some but not so much to others, such as common sense. Treat one another as you would want to be treated. Is that such the case with people who think they are better than others? I find people intriguing in such that I think about what drives them to be and act the way they do? I see that in majority cases it has to do with pier pressure to be a curtain way and if they are called on by a group, leader or loved one they tend to be greatly influenced.

I think now that I’ve encountered different scenarios in my life time,  I have a better outlook and experience in how friends, employment and social gathering interact.  I’ve always thought of myself as being a very open minded person. I’m a good listener and genuinely want to hear what people have to say who ever they are. I’ve dealt with all kinds of people from all walks of life, if it be a white collar, blue collar or even unfortunate individuals everyone deserves to be heard. It’s either genetics, upbringing and or choice, the way people treat one another. I think as you grow and see how the world is and how our society interacts, it has an effect and outlook on how we socialize. America is so sheltered when it comes to the way people interact to one another. I guess you can say we are quite spoiled because we are allowed to have freedom of speech and have choices in how we choose to live our lives. The choice is of coarse yours to make and I hope it’s a positive one. The interaction you have if it be with fellow workers, strangers and or loved ones wishing it will always be with sincerity and goodness.

This is my REFLECTION for the month.

Much love and happiness.

 

 

CHANGE

Funny how most or all my post have to do with change, well it’s inevitable. We can’t help the things that change around us; we can however change the way it affects us as a person and our response to its diversity.

Let me reflect on the business aspects of my life instead of family or friends for once. I am in a stage in my life where I feel the need for transformation in my career which will effect my self worth. I need to feel and see that  there is a bright light beyond and I don’t feel that right now. I’m sure that can be spiritually or just a feeling of content. I’m feeling neither right now. What does that exactly mean to me? I’m looking for not the norm, challenges, stability and camaraderie in my next adventure.

Now, it’s time to get focused and back on the bull to take control once again. It’s NEVER too late to start if it be today or tomorrow. I’ve set goals and updated my vision board which, reflect the things that are going to be done that make me HAPPY! Very common things such as pay off debit, rebuild my savings and allocate for a home again. Pictures of the things I envision in my life once again or new possessions to share.

Planning is crucial in all aspects of growth in life. I’m sure I’m not the only person with these similar goals. What needs to be done emotionally, you have to have the vitality to keep moving forward with positive goals with whatever obstacles that gets in the way. You have to find the means to balance your life with budgeting and realistic expectation of how to maintain your life style. We are the only ones who can make our destiny be what you want it to be with confidence and smart decisions the earlier in life the better. If it be in business, relationships, love, life etc… it’s all up to us as individuals.

Education; continual learning will keep up the intellect skills needed for what drives us. We are never too old to learn if it be professionally or spiritually. Find the balance in your life if it be between school, work, family, friends and health try to find the symmetry.  It’s important to gain a nest egg for your future to be comfortable so make wise choices.

Much love and happiness

Challenges

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I can’t believe how long it has taken me to write a blog! I actually wrote one a few weeks back but felt it wasn’t a positive passage of words for me to share. I think I just needed to write out my feelings even if they weren’t all good. It was just a mixture of perplex thoughts of how I felt about certain people and situations happening in my life which are personal. I picked this picture because it represents the mystifying feelings I felt throughout the year.

This year has definitely had it’s ups and downs as every year. It’s life’s experiences how else do we live and learn but through mistakes and triumphs. I recall speaking of goals at the beginning of the year but how it seems those goals have take 2nd, 3rd or 4th place in my life, talk about distractions!

For me this year has been extremely CHALLENGING. I do believe in strength, belief in oneself and god will get you through any obstacles in life. Love others as you would love yourself. We do get lost in other peoples problems and loose ourselves in them. You can’t always be there for other’s when it tears you down emotionally and physically, I’m learning this. Take care of one self being 1st and for most!

On another note, I’m extremely excited that I have a new family this year I’m spending the holidays with. We should all welcome new people into our lives with kindness!

I end this by saying I’ve learned a lot this year as every year. It’s always a learning experience “LIFE that is”. Cherish your life and surround yourself with people you love. Happy Holidays to everyone, god bless and have a wonderful Happy New Year!

Much love,

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